Thursday, September 23, 2010

The Face of "Pre-existing Condition"


We've been able, through careful scrutiny of food labels and asking questions of waiters at restaurants, to keep Charlotte's sesame allergy under control.  However, it's not always in our control, and we know there will be a time in the future when she'll be at a friend's house or at school and ingest sesame.  Case in point.  When I was in Dallas, Chris received a call from daycare that there had been an incident.  Another one of the toddlers had brought in a cracker (and you know how much Charlotte is obsessed with crackers) that was covered in sesame seeds.  Charlotte, being the cracker-lover that she is, tried to grab the cracker from the other boy.  The teachers were able to pry the cracker out of her hands before she ate it, but not before she touched it.  She then rubbed her hands on her eyes and they started to turn red and swell, a little.  The teachers gave her Benadryl, and Chris came right over to pick her up.  I was really mad to hear this a few hours later and gave a stern scolding to the school the following Monday (as in, maybe you need to tell the other families not to bring in outside food?!).  But I say all this to remind myself that as much as Chris and I try to protect Charlotte, there will be more incidents in the future.

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I don't think I've mentioned this before, but we received our bills from Charlotte's reaction to the sesame in the baba ghanoush.  All told, the ER visit, which consisted of an hour and a half of us sitting in an exam room, a physician assistant and a nurse taking Charlotte's vitals and administering an extra dose of Children's Benadryl and steroids, and waiting until the swelling went down enough to go home, came to about $2000.  $2000!  There were no blood tests, no x-rays, no other types of tests, and we were seen by a mid-level provider and not even a doctor.  I have no idea how that can add up to $2000, but that was the total. And the ambulance bill was over $1000.  Our of out-of-pocket cost? A measly-by-comparison $100. Charlotte's three Epi Pen Jrs were only $20 total, when the real cost would have been 10 times that much. All because we are blessed to have really good insurance through our jobs. We're lucky, but we know that there are so many who are not, who stay up late, worrying about medical bills.

Keeping that in mind, I sent a letter to the editor of the Sacramento Bee yesterday about the six month anniversary of the passage of the Affordable Care Act, the health reform bill.  It hasn't been published (yet), but here's the gist:

Today marks the six month anniversary of the passage of the Affordable Care Act, which means that children can no longer be denied health insurance due to a pre-existing condition.  Sadly, my 15 month old baby has joined those ranks.  We discovered that our daughter, through no fault of her own, has a life threatening food allergy, which caused a trip in an ambulance to the ER.  We're blessed to have good insurance, but now we are heartened to know that if we were to ever lose our insurance, we would be able to purchase insurance for our baby with her allergy covered.  And her condition is nowhere near as serious as hundreds of thousands of children out there whose parents cannot purchase insurance on the individual market.  It upsets me to no end that there are legislators out there, including my own congressman, who wants to repeal this law, which has the potential to help so many people, like my own small family.  Shame on him.

What today also marks? Children can stay on their parents' insurance until age 26, regardless of whether or not they're full-time students.  When I graduated from college, I was allowed to stay on my mom's insurance because I was still going to graduate school, but I knew many friends who lost their insurance the day they graduated.  Many chose internships or other entry-level positions that either didn't provide insurance or was made too cost-prohibitive.  Today, young adults don't have to worry.  They can take that internship, they can study abroad, all without the fear of getting in an accident and not being able to pay the hospital bills.  Should this be repealed?

Today, new plans must offer preventive services free of charge.  Mammograms are covered 100% without a co-pay, immunizations are free, well-child visits no longer require parents to pay money out-of pocket.  Should we take this provision away?

Lifetime and annual limits are banned.  This means that people with serious illnesses don't have to worry about whether they're going to hit that lifetime cap of coverage, at which time they're on the hook for every dime of coverage.  There are people who have to change jobs constantly because of chronic illnesses because they hit this cap.  One of my colleagues has no immune system and must receive a blood transfusion every three weeks to fend off infection. This provision directly benefits her.  Should this be replaced?

Finally, today marks the day that insurance companies can't rescind your coverage just because, you (gasp) actually use your insurance. I have heard countless stories of people getting cancer, only to have an insurance company drop them from coverage (despite paying hundreds of dollars in premiums) when they try to get care.  

Many more important changes roll out in the next few years, including prohibiting the denial of care based on pre-existing conditions for all age groups in 2014.
 
And please don't start yelling to me about the individual mandate.  I don't want to hear it. The individual mandate is what will make the insurance reforms work.  It will ensure that the risk is spread around; otherwise, it will all fall apart.  You can't ban pre-existing conditions without making sure that everyone has insurance, or people will wait until they're sick or in a car accident to buy insurance.  And to ensure that people enroll, you have to make it affordable by providing subsidies and hardship exemptions.  It's a fragile three-legged stool, and I'm determined to make sure that it doesn't fall apart.

It's my job to be passionate about this. It's my job to understand and defend this law, which expands coverage to millions, many of whom are the patients our clinics care for each and every day.  And it's my job to be an advocate for Charlotte, who has been to the ER more times in her short life than I think I have in my entire life.  It makes me breathe a little easier to know that today (and hopefully forever), she'll have access to insurance.  And I hope that the readers here (however few there are) will remember that the face of health insurance reform isn't just some poor person who isn't taking responsibility for his or her health, it's my daughter, my baby. And it could be yours too.



Monday, September 20, 2010

Some Animal Sounds

Charlotte is fifteen months old.  I've now renewed the My Baby Can Talk DVD three times from the library, and I'm waiting for another one of the DVDs to be returned so we can learn more signs.  Charlotte is on a signing roll!

She can sign the following words:
  • milk
  • more
  • hat
  • cracker
  • baby
  • monkey
  • all done
  • please
  • thank you
  • elephant
  • lion
  • bye bye
  • hi
  • hungry (she made this one up herself - it involves patting her stomach if I ask her if she's hungry)
She also says the following words/sounds, although not consistently, other than ball and more
  • ball (this is the one word that she never signs, but only says)
  • more
  • cup
  • cracker
  • pain (bread in French)
  • grande (tall in French)
  • meow
  • an elephant sound
  • doggie - I think that's what she says in the following video
  • all gone
  • hi
  • bye bye
  • Mama (only when she's upset and I'm not around)
  • EIEIO (from the song Old McDonald Had a Farm)
  • quack quack (sometimes?)
Most of those words are said few and far between, but she does consistently make the noises for an elephant and for cat. She also says more quite often, usually while signing more.

Of course, she understands many times more words than that. Here's a video I took just tonight while she was eating dinner.  Do you think she's saying "doggie"?



Charlotte seems to be learning more and more signs and words each day.  It's so fun to watch her learning new things.  Of course, there are drawbacks.  Right when I started this video, Chris happened to say hat, which immediately caused Charlotte to pat her head (the sign for hat) with her spaghetti-covered hands. Oh well!

I know I keep saying this, but each month is more and more fun than the one before it! We are just so damn lucky, I can hardly stand it.

Yosemite Camping Adventure

Hi Everyone,

Just got back from our first camping trip as a family!  We went to the Yosemite Valley, and it was beyond fantastic.  I hadn't been to Yosemite for over four years, which means that the last time I was there, Chris and I weren't even married yet.  A lot can change in four years.  Heck, with Charlotte around, a lot can change in just a few days or weeks.

Yosemite National Park, being as popular as it is, requires that you book campsites four months in advance.  So back in May we decided to book five campsites in the Valley.  There was a glitch in the system, so we wound up not getting all the sites together, but it didn't wind up mattering.  Everyone was pretty close by.  We went with 22 people, including five children under three (three of whom are under the age of one!).  All of the adults (those sans children) decided to make the trek up Half Dome on Saturday, making Chris and me kind of jealous not to be able to join them.  Chris has summited Half Dome seven times, and I've summited it twice (almost three times, but the last time Quarter Dome was covered in snow, and I didn't want to do it), and it's such a feeling of accomplishment when you get to the top.


But it worked out for the best because we had a great time exploring the Valley with Charlotte.  First, let me admit to you that I was worried about camping with Charlotte.  We didn't know how she'd sleep, how she'd handle the cold, or how we could keep her from getting filthy.  On the last concern, it became immediately evident that there was nothing we could do to keep her from getting dirty.  Charlotte adored the dirt.  She walked all over the campground, picking up strewn bottle caps, shoving dirt and pine needles in her mouth, chasing after tree squirrels, and throwing rocks.  I basically had to stop worrying about the dirt and embrace it, because the second I wiped it off, Charlotte would stick her hands back in the dirt.  She was so covered in dirt that she reminded us of the Peanuts character, Pig Pen.

Check out those adorable itty bitty hiking boots!

The dirt on this bottom? A speck compared to the fistfuls she would pick up.


To protect her from her from stubbing her toes, I bought Charlotte some adorable Keen hiking boots that were on sale at REI.  They have reinforced toes, and even though this trip may be the only time she ever wears them, they were well worth the money.  She stumbled and tripped on countless rocks over the two day trip, but not once did she hurt herself.  Money well spent.

I was most worried about how Charlotte would sleep at night.  Luckily, Chris' parents got us a family-sized tent for Christmas, and it was great!  The tent was big enough for a full-sized air mattress for us, the Pack N Play for Charlotte to sleep in, and plenty of room to spare.  Both nights Charlotte slept great; we never heard a peep from her.

The cold mornings proved to be the only sticking point.  The Valley gets really chilly in the morning, much more so than the early evening, because it takes so long for the sun to rise over the granite.  Although we dressed Charlotte in warm fleecy outfits, her hands were freezing, and she would not keep her mittens on. This caused her to get really upset until we brought her back to the tent to warm up, after which she brightened up considerably.  Diaper changes were also a challenge because the wipes were so cold to the touch. Poor thing.  I hope she'll figure out soon that mittens = warm hands.

Cold mornings

While the large group of childless adults hiked Half Dome, we joined the Wiseleys on a hike to Mirror Lake to get a view of Half Dome from below.  It was our first time really using the baby carrier we bought on sale at REI, and it was fabulous.  When we first tried it out at home, Charlotte screamed and screamed while we were putting her in the carrier.  Once we got her outside, she stopped crying and actually enjoyed herself.  In Yosemite, Charlotte didn't even cry once when we got her in the carrier.  Mirror Lake is actually a seasonal pool, so while we were there it was nothing but a huge sand pit.  It was about a three mile hike roundtrip, and the only downside was that Charlotte fells asleep on the way back, but was up so high in the pack, she had no where to rest her head.  Her head would flop every which way, and Charlotte would whimper with her eyes closed.

In the backpack and ready to go!
The Merced River, I think


Playing in the sand at Mirror "Lake"

Falling asleep on the way back to camp.

It's amazing the amount of stuff you have to lug when you're camping, but you have to multiply that by five when you're bringing along a toddler.  From food, to a booster seat, to the Pack n Play, to a dozen onesies, it's a lot of stuff.  We brought sippy cups that you could recycle when you're done using them, which ended up being a wise decision because Charlotte kept dropping them in the dirt. 

I could go on, but I won't.  Camping with Charlotte turned out to be so much better than we could have hoped for, and it was made even more enjoyable by the fact that we had so many friends with us.  Charlotte had a great time, and we can't wait to do it again.  Our friend, Elizabeth, even decided to come just with Baby Samantha (who's only three months old), because her husband Lawrence was sick.  I was astounded, but Elizabeth handled it like it was no big deal, which, as it turned out, it wasn't. 

Camping Mamas! (Left to Right): Stephanie and Charlotte (15 months), Elizabeth and Samantha (3 months), Amber and Tucker (almost 9 months), Susan and Jackson (11 months)


Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Soy Vay...

We took Charlotte to her first food challenge today.  A food challenge is when you give a suspected amount of allergy-causing food in the safety of the doctor's office and see what happens.  It was quite the ordeal.  We were at the allergy department for four hours, right in the middle of naptime/  Today's challenge was soy, so we were asked to bring soy milk for Charlotte to drink.  The nurse first put a very small amount on her lips to see if that would react.  We waited thirty minutes, and then the nurse gave her 20 mL in Charlotte's sippy cup.  And then we waited thirty more minutes.  This continued every thirty minutes, with the amount doubling each time and maxing out at 160 mL (about 4 oz).  It was exhausting. Can you imagine how hard it is to force a 14 month old to keep drinking liquids when she doens't want to? And poor Charlotte couldn't eat anything during that time for fear of cross contamination, so it was horrible when she saw crackers in the diaper bag.

(By the way, Charlotte learned how to sign cracker last week, and now it's all she does. She asks for crackers for breakfast, lunch and dinner.  And if she even hears the word she starts signing it.  So you can imagine how mad she was when she couldn't have any.)

During the three hours of the test, we couldn't leave the waiting room.  Luckily, we were prepared and brought a lot of toys and Finding Nemo.  Charlotte has the attention span of, well a one year old, so television thankfully doesn't hold a lot of interest.  Chris and I, on the other hand, enjoyed watching the movie.

Anyway, as you may have guessed by the tone of this post, nothing happened, thankfully.  No rash, no hives, nothing.  Obviously soy was a false positive, so we can now scratch that one off the list.  (We'd already suspected this based on the fact that everything, including all of Charlotte's precious crackers, contain soybean oil, and we've had no reactions.) 

Next up is lentil.  Lentils were one of Charlotte's favorite foods a few months ago, but we stopped giving it to her around the time we found out about the peas.  We really want to do the challenge with cashew, but it's going to be hard.  For one, she's never had any kind of peant-type butter, so she may not tolerate the texture. For another, she's still a little young to eat hard nuts for fear of choking.  So that's going to wait.

We're slow rolling the next challenge because it requires both of us to take at least half a day off from work, so the next one won't be for another six weeks.  In the meantime, it's good to have one fewer food to worry about! (Make that two; Charlotte ate a couple cherry tomatoes the other day with no reaction). Bring on the tofu and edamame. :)

(Tomorrow I leave for Dallas.  Upper 90s and incredibly humid.  I don't get back until about 10 on Saturday night, so Chris has a long day entertaining Miss Charlotte.)